Actually it is really my first time to see a Chinese traditional wedding from other place other than my hometown, Kelantan...Therefore, there are a lot to be learnt from here,i guess thats what i see from my colleague wedding on last Saturday..I just get to know that my colleague is Hakka, not Hokkien as mine, not even Cantonese as i may understand their language a little bit, at least better than Hakka which i dont even know one word of it..The night before the wedding, there is a combing hair ceremony. As they said, it should be the groom having the ceremony first, following by the bride right after the groom finished. The ceremony will be held by the elders in the family, most of the time, i think it should be the parents to do it, but in my colleague case, she said its her jiu mu will do it because her parents dono how to say the speech..The speech that i mean is some meaningful speech for the bride happiness and to bless the marriage, i think its something like that la in my definition,haha... Guess what, its totally different from my hometown tradition.. We normally having the comb hair ceremony in the morning, if not mistaken is about 5am in the morning and it is done by anyone who was born in Dragon year, i still remembered for my uncle wedding, we had my little niece who was aged about 8-10 years old that year to comb his hair.. So funny, she was not tall enough to touch my uncle hair so her mum need to carry her up...
That night, i sleep at 2am something because i need to do my part as the ji mui, i never thought there are a lot to be done, but i think other families sure will had more than us, hehe..i still think that our games are simple only... The most cannot tahan part was when i was helping Chia to write and draw on those disposable panties, it was damn embarassing for us, huhu... and yet i cannot tahan with my colleague sister, she was the one who bought the panties and all of them are sized M? God knows how guy can wear a M size with their slacks inside? and thats what happen the next day during the wedding, beh tahan her, she said tight is good, haha...
The next morning, on the wedding day, i was awake at 7 something and saw the bride already taking her shower, for your information, i was sleeping beside the bride on her last night before she gets married, haha..
What a lucky me, hehe, joking...Wah Ko please dont kill me, huhu... We had our last preparation for the game and get dressed... Tell you lar, the bride very beautiful, making me feel like i wanna get married also, haih..i wish... 9.30am plus, the groom reached with the heng tai... The first game we played are just the pumping exercise.. Singing plus pumping, haha... Having great juices and food after that, i think all are not tough enough, what to do, we cant have their stomach get sick, haha..but the maggi plus strawberry yogurt is quite disgusting, seeing how it looks also i cannot dare to eat, yakkss...
Next is the Q & A session, 6 questions with 5 seconds of time to answer, well, we just want to punish the heng tai, who cares if the groom gives the right answer at the right time? The punishment was makeover and model for the day, this section was what we had contributed for the night before, the disposable panties with cartoons and word on it.. and it was proved that the panties really cannot fir on them, they were so embarrased to wear, can see from ther hesitance which takes quite a long time before they wear it, haha... and they directly just sat on the chair after wearing them, too paiseh i guess...Some still very bad luck when he also need to put on lipstick, to have nicer shot,we get them a superb red colour or lipstick, for a nicer effects for sure, haha...
After that, just the game of eating grapes and so on...Then the traditional ceremony start, well, not forget to mention the MEI PO for the wedding, her voice was so loud to be heard from a far distance, haha... I was told that the groom dad just passed away last year, actually for a Chinese tradition, we are not supposed to have a wedding for a period of three years, but then they had this ceremony whereby both the bride and groom will do 3 circles in front of the house..They said for the spirit to come back to home,i guess...
